tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381361051443242179.post8166410449027794997..comments2023-05-16T10:59:24.692-04:00Comments on Yet another infertility blog...: Grieving and moving onFranciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05034004540141447860noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381361051443242179.post-33790007214309199382011-03-13T22:24:36.381-04:002011-03-13T22:24:36.381-04:00Hi, its Amis from the FF circles. Mine didn't...Hi, its Amis from the FF circles. Mine didn't work out either. Beta went up to 225, then back down. Chemical PG. Even when it happens this early, it is so sad and heartbreaking. <br /><br />Have you ever heard of the "emotional tourniquet"? Its when you find out bad news about your beta or ultrasound, then have to go back to work and put a coherent sentence together and act like everything is normal. That is the worst part of this whole process. I'm not sure how you or I or anyone else going through this manages to get through days like that. Sheer willpower I think.<br /><br />Best of luck with everything. Our IF road has ended we believe. We have one son by IVF, and have tried 6 more times to give him a sibling. It looks like it will not work out for us.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17870618846787344338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381361051443242179.post-21275672183145814542011-03-08T23:19:51.815-05:002011-03-08T23:19:51.815-05:00I'm so so sorry. :( It's so unfair to be s...I'm so so sorry. :( It's so unfair to be so close and then have it taken away. Thinking of you...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381361051443242179.post-9418637103728138922011-03-06T22:13:55.307-05:002011-03-06T22:13:55.307-05:00I'm glad to hear you are handling the disappoi...I'm glad to hear you are handling the disappointment OK. It is good that you have 5 frozen embryos from this cycle.<br /><br />Regarding your comment about possibly switching clinics for FETs, I just wanted to share something I learned recently on a message board I frequent for parents via egg donation. FET success rates are greatly related to how the embryos are frozen and their quality prior to freezing. At this point, these things have already been determined by your current clinic. Based on that information, I'm not sure that changing clinics for your FETs would make much of a difference in their likelihood of success. Just something to think about.Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08872513410814268769noreply@blogger.com